I have never seen anyone wear stockings and/or lingerie. Considering I really enjoy getting a table shower, that would be a problem in getting them wet.
About a year ago I was at a strip joint and one of the girls there (she remembered me, because I had told her that she had a striking resemblance to an ex-GFs oldest daughter...and she even repeated that to me!) told me that there is a man that comes in and will bring in a pair of expensive panties and have her wear them when she is dancing for him. He'd then take them home...doing who knows what with them....at least that's what the dancer would say.
She said that when she would come on stage with them on and slowly peel them off in front of him he would give her very good tips.
Maybe you should take in some lingerie and/or stockings and see if your provider would wear them. It might cost you a bit extra, tho.